Are you Best at Starting Things, Changing Things or Finishing Things?

Are you tired of yet another year slipping away and feeling like you have not gotten anywhere toward your goal? Do you want something different in 2025? 

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Transcript:

Megan Blacksmith:

Welcome Megan here. Welcome to the series of possibilities. If you are jumping into this episode and you have not started at the beginning, at episode one of the series in the beginning of December, I want you to pause and go on back, because these go in order, and there’s a process, and there’s a whole thing happening. So I want you to go to becoming zesty.com forward slash possibility so that you can get the workbook leave a review. And in episode one, we’ll be explaining all the different ways that you can win a free 90 minute breakthrough session with us. This is a very powerful way to get yourself set up and rewired for 2025 so we cannot wait for you to keep listening to the series. And if you’ve already listened to this point, just keep on going. Welcome back. Back. You’ve made it to part five of the possibility series. Yeah, I’m sorry. I won’t I won’t sing. I won’t sing in episodes that’s not kind to you. Instead, I’m going to tell you a joke. How do you get a squirrel to like you? You act like a nut. Gosh, that’s a good one. Anywho. So if you have not gone back to start at part one, go ahead and do that. Now. This is a series, and we’re on Part Five. This is the series of possibility, where we’re spending December together to really rewire for what’s possible. And today, if you have not yet heard of the be do have model? We’re going to talk about that today, and you probably have from us, maybe someone else. It’s very, very, very powerful. So what is this? This is the idea that often we think that when we have something we will then do something different, and then we will be a different way. So when I have more money, then I will go do that training, and then I will be happy. Okay, so this is the model of thinking that first there has to be something we have in order to get to emotion. Well, I have some exciting news for you. The end state, those emotions, the things that we’re going for, and the reason why we really literally do everything is to get to that emotion, to have that feeling of joy and connection and happiness, whatever it is for you, peace, that thing that we’re hoping to be, we can have that now. It’s exciting, right? And the thing is that by having that now, by being and feeling that state now, and by practicing that like and I said in the last time, well, the last part, in the last episode, that if you were to get up and get into a clear intention and elevated every every morning, elevated emotion, every morning, you would already be in the state that you were hoping to get to without even having to do or have anything, and then magically, what happens is the things that you would have done to get to that thing that you thought you now just have them. So that’s when the lake house showed up for me. So when I had just, was just being the person. I was just being the person who believed I had it, being the person who had the feeling and acting like the person who would have it. I was taking the action, I was doing the things, and then I had it, but I didn’t wait to have the lake house to then be the identity of someone with a lake house. Does that make sense? We’re gonna flip the script be do have first we’re gonna be the thing. Okay? And here’s a little question for you today from your workbook. Now, what are you best at? Just whatever pops into your mind. Are you best at starting things, changing things or stopping, which can also be finishing things. So I am best at starting things. What are you worst at starting things, changing things or stopping, finishing things. So I am worse at stopping and finishing things. So if you’re worse at stopping or finishing things, this could be like, you don’t finish a book. This could be like, you don’t stop or end some kind of friendship or relationship or something that’s gone on too long. If you’re worse at starting things, then maybe you just kind of look at your thing, and you’re, like, overwhelmed by everything. You’re like, oh, there’s too many projects, and you never do anything changing things when you’re good at changing things. This is like, from shifting from one part to enough next. These people are great at improving things. So they might not be great at, you know, starting the project. They’re not going to have the Initiate initiative of like, Yeah, let’s do this thing, but once it’s going they’ll be really good at improving it, and they might also not be the person to bring it home. So there’s different people for all these categories. So now here’s what I want you to ask yourself. Now, if you were worse at starting things, let’s say you circled that you are worse at starting things. This is the question I want you to ask yourself, and this is all I want you to ponder for today. If you said you’re worse at starting things, ask yourself this question, why can’t you be who you want to be? I want you to pause and give that an honest answer. So if that’s you, just pause here. Now, if you were worst the worst thing was worst at changing things, I want you to ask yourself this question, why can’t you do what you want to do? Pause there. Now, if you were worse at stopping things, ask yourself this question, why can’t you ever get what you want?

There’s some things to noodle on for the day. Thank you for being here. Thank you for filling out the workbook every day, and you will have two days to catch up. Now, you’ll have the weekend. We won’t have anything else until Monday. So my suggestion is always to stay up to date on the week, so that you have your workbook filled in. And these last few have been very short, so you’ve got this fill it in, send it to us. Well, you don’t have to send it to us yet. I misspoke. That will be later. That will be by January 3. Fill it in, keep it go ahead and leave us a review, because that’s one of your tasks on the podcast. And if you want to grab our meditation, you’ll know where to find it. Zdg, Comm, forward slash meditations, so you can secure this in to your neurology in a faster way. And have an audio to go along and please grab a friend this. We’re still beginning of the series. Grab a friend to do this with. If you haven’t shared this with anyone, please think of somebody you can take a picture of this and text to right now, because we want everybody to have the possibility, and everyone to feel that possibility going into 2023 because we all know that we could use some more people thinking possibly, okay, we’ll end this episode with some possibility. Thanks for being here.

Testimonial:
Hi. My name is Sarah. At the beginning of 2022, my life was a mess. I had just birthed my second baby, and I had two babies in one calendar year, one in January of 2021, and the other at the beginning of December. Both were extremely tough pregnancies and tough immediate postpartum periods with a lot of challenges with each baby, and beginning of 2022 I felt like crap. I felt like I had a flu every day, and I was in pain every day, and the responsibility of taking care of these two tiny people into house. Told two little people who depended on me for everything was so overwhelming that the thought of taking my life occurred to me multiple times a day, and the thought of not living anymore gave me a sense of relief. I felt like I did not have any control over my life, over my emotions, over what happened in my day, and it did not feel good. I decided, at my husband’s encouragement to work with a health coach in spring of 2022 and that was the first step I took in advocating for myself and choosing to put myself first and pour back into myself everything I poured back into everyone else around me, and that was a huge shift. I started to feel better. I started to feel lighter. Activity was easier, and I felt more comfortable in my body every day, and that opened me up to start listening to the podcast more intensely, and to feel up to the challenge, the brain based habit challenge, and even up to the practitioner training, traveling away from my family for an entire week to Pour into myself this investment of knowledge and growth, and I’m telling you that changed everything I feel now like I have the tools and the perspective to be who I truly want to be and to act For my higher self and to know and to embody that that’s possible, and to be able to feel my bright future and to know that I’m stepping toward that every day.